Being Angry With God

You know what amazes me? – that God loves me.


As readers of Average Us know, I experience recurring cycles between what I call “feeling good” and depression. During the depression cycles, I feel all sorts of dark, awful things. I lose control of my normal thought processes. I feel pain inside and out. And the only thing that anchors me is the hope of future freedom because of what God did for me in Christ.

I want to tell you about one particular cycle. I had all the same pangs of depression, but this time there was also something else:


I was angry with God – not a loud, in your face kind of anger – but a tired, brooding anger that was so buried inside that I couldn’t even admit it to myself. But I knew it was there. The anger and tiredness led to despondency. I was to the point of not caring. My soul was so thirsty for Him, but He felt trillions of miles away and was very, very silent.

And Worship

One night during this time I awoke with a start. I was filled with fear and panic. On the edge of losing it, I cried out to God for help. Then, alongside the fear came worship. Worship songs started to fill my mind. I should have been thankful – but I wasn’t. I was still angry. Angry that I woke up (AGAIN) with panic. The next morning I awoke with my mind again filled with music…worship. This pattern of waking up to worship songs went on. It was beautiful. My tired soul welcomed it. But I was still angry. And because of that anger, I did not “see” God in this experience. He was still miles away. Trying to pray and read the Bible was a disaster because my troubled mind still could not concentrate. That made me even angrier. But, the music went on…every morning and now throughout the day.

And Love

Do you see it? Do you see the love? Despite my anger toward Him and despondency toward the life He has given me, He sang over me. He sang over me every day and I ignored Him. I weep. Not because I was angry, but because in my anger I missed seeing Him. The prophet Jonah wrote, “those who cling to worthless idols forfeit the grace that could be theirs.” I could have seen that love and rejoiced in it. But instead I clung to my idol, my anger.

And Tears

But I also weep to know of His amazing love for me. My anger did not stop Him from loving me. My anger did not change His grace. I just couldn’t or wouldn’t see it for a while. I’m amazed at such a love that forgives even as I am angry. Was my anger a sin? Probably. But His kindness moves me to repentance, and today, today I am basking in the love I don’t understand.

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3 thoughts on “Being Angry With God

  1. First of all I just want to say I think it’s beautiful and also brave of you both for openly admitting your faults and “average-ness” it’s comforting to read just how human we all are :) secondly I want to say anger towards God is something I think we all go through. I know I have found myself at times so angry with God I couldn’t believe it.(or so ashamed that I didn’t want to) I think anger is an easy emotion to feel for so
    many reasons. When life gets difficult and the obstacles before us seem to large it’s easy to just be angry with God instead of coming to terms with what he’s really doing for us, “the bigger picture” I think in our hearts we know he has a plan for our lives and doesn’t do things to hurt us but in our human “average” mind it’s easier to focus on anger instead of “holding on to the grace that could be ours”. I like to think that optimism is almost God whispering in my ear :) reminding me of the good things that some times come from pain.

    Thanks again! I look forward to more inspiration

    • Brittany,
      Yes…being human with all its myriad of emotions is who we all are. We all experience anger with God along with the surprise at our anger, or the shame. But the beauty of it is that God then uses that anger or shame to point us to that “bigger picture” you mentioned – who He wants to be in our lives because of Jesus! I’m so glad you see God in your life journey. I love what you said that “optimism is almost God whispering in my ear…”. I will remember that for a long time. Thank you for reading our blog. I believe Lon has one scheduled from me for tomorrow…

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